Rian passed in the morning of December 31st 2020, at home in my arms where he wanted to be. If you knew Rian, you were a better person for having met him. His heart and soul were generous and genuine. With a free and adventurous spirit. His love, laughter, wit, positivity and perseverance were just some of the gifts he gave to all that loved him. He was a carpenter by trade. But Rian could accomplish anything he set his mind on. We had the blessing of reuniting after 35 yrs and falling in love deeper and truer than ever. He is survived by his wife Tammy Arevalo, his loving sisters Maureen O’Reilly (Russ), Janet Haworth (Bob), and brother Bob James (Lynn). My daughters he loved like his own. Nieces and nephews that adored their Unc. His loving parents, brother and son that have passed, but must be remembered. Father and best friend Thomas (Tim) Molloy O’Reilly. his beloved mother Thelma Francis O’Reilly, brother Ronnie James and beloved son Jason. Born in RI but raised in Mount Helix/San Diego. He graduated from Monte Vista High in 1974. He loved life to the fullest! A beautiful man inside and out.